It’s Tough Being Optimistic All the Time

Being a business owner means you are constantly excited about what you do, invigorated by what the future holds, confident about everything and in a constant state of optimism. Nothing gets you down because you are in control and you know everything will be just fine. If you honestly believe the drivel I’ve just written then I suggest you seek help! While we are certainly in this state most of the time we are human. Things do get us down. We do get scared. We do second guess ourselves. We do have moments of sheer terror.

Which leads me to a fantastic book for entrepreneurs; Conquer the Chaos by Clate Mask and Scott Martineau. It is from this book that I got the following list of ways to help you stay optimistic. To not let the stresses and strains of running your own business get you down. And when it does get you down how to pull yourselve out. With no further ado here is their list:
• Read customer testimonials. This does wonders to remind you how good you are!
• Remove yourself. Go for a walk. Take a drive. This is a time to rewire your brain.
• Act quickly. Don’t brood and dwell on difficult experiences. Go to work on them right away.
• Rewire your brain. Stop negative thoughts. Replace them with positive thoughts AND words.
• Do physical exercise. Somehow, physical exercise is therapy for the brain.
• Connect with loved ones. Family and friends have a way of providing great perspective.
• Smile and laugh; this is great therapy.
• Recite accomplishments. Remembering and publishing progress is very powerful.
• Be grateful. List all the things you are grateful for.
• Read inspirational books. This will build your confidence and open your mind to solutions.
• Give a compliment. This does wonders for the person you compliment AND you.

Thank you Scott and Clate. I’m happy to share your advice with our entrepreneurial community. I am also happy to recommend your book Conquer the Chaos to them;  www.conquerthechaosbook.com

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4 Responses to “It’s Tough Being Optimistic All the Time”

  1. jane saracino Says:

    Thanks Nick! These are wise words to keep us going! Jane

  2. Jay Miller Says:

    Remove yourself- I remember a significant breakthrough on a blocked writing project that occurred when I “gave up” and took a walk through a quiet neighborhood.

    Act quickly- I am amazed to observe how much power is generated when I take action, even seemingly small steps. Inaction is draining.

    Do physical exercise- It’s remarkable how a martial arts lesson can turn a dragging-my-butt day into a walking-tall day.

    Be grateful- I can be a “glass half empty” personality, so every night, I go to sleep thinking of 5 things made me happy that day.

    Give a compliment- Give anything, for that matter. When I need to be encouraged, it’s time to look beyond myself. I make a deliberate effort to do something nice for someone else.

    Thanks for the suggestions, Nick.

  3. Your Planning Partners Says:

    Thank you Jay ~ great examples!
    Nick

  4. Mike Wilson Says:

    Thanks, Nick, for visiting my blog. It is funny how similar the things are that can keep us upbeat when the world wants to knock us down.

    Mike

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